If you picked the Kid Stuff Trait in Starfield, then you officially have parents to visit. This is the only way to have parents in Starfield. You do need to send them 10% of all the money you earn, but it’s worth it to have loving parents who periodically gift you stuff. Here’s exactly where to find your parents in Starfield.
Note: If you’re still deciding, you might want to learn what the best Traits are in Starfield.
Starfield parents location for Kid Stuff Trait, explained
Right after you meet Constellation in Starfield and complete the One Small Step quest, you’ll get an Activity called “See Your Parents at Pioneer Tower.” I recommend you open your questlog and highlight this new activity to easily find and navigate toward Pioneer Tower since it’ll be marked with a blue directional hexagon.
Pioneer Tower is located in the New Atlantis Residential District. If you’re facing the Lodge doors, turn right and keep going forward. You’ll pass a lot of shops and other apartment complexes, but keep going and you’ll see Pioneer Tower at the end of this area.
You can also fast travel to the Residential District by using the tram. Pioneer Towers is in the back of the Residential District, so keep going until you see the big Pioneer Tower sign.
Walk inside and use the elevator to immediately be taken to the floor of your family’s apartment. Go through the elevator doors, turn left, and you’ll find your family’s apartment.\
After talking with your parents, you’ll find your room at the end of the hall on your left. There, you’ll find your High School Backpack which actually has some good stats and an Extra Capacity bonus, although it doesn’t have a booster, some plushies, and a few other nickknacks.
You can also remove the Kid Stuff Trait by talking to your dad and picking that dialogue option, but I think it’s kinda sad so I couldn’t bring myself to pick that option.
Now you know how to find your parents in Starfield. You can return to this apartment whenever you want to visit and talk to your parents. I also found that my parents visited The Lodge and gave me a new weapon, which is really cool. Having cool parents pays off.